I don’t really care about being liked or loved by everyone. I’m happy to accept that not everyone gets along with everyone in this world, so I don’t really care about being loved by everyone.
I do want the people I know to love the One that I love the most. In order to do that, I have to love them. They have to know that I love because he first love me. So I refrain from being cruel, I refrain from speaking my mind all the time. Not because I care if they love me, but because I care if they love him. All for the sake of His glory.